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Please help advocate for permanent state funding

The elimination of Redevelopment Agencies (RDAs) in California has left COTS with a huge government funding gap this fiscal year and a large projected gap next year. We have a three-pronged response to close the gap:

  1. Reduce programs and staff (including salary cuts and layoffs-again!);
  2. Increase individual and foundation giving with our Invest in Miracles strategy;
  3. Advocate for state action for long-term solutions for COTS and other organizations.

We’re asking for your help advocating with the state legislature to pass the Housing Opportunity and Market Stabilization (HOMeS) Act (S.B. 1220), which funds:

  • Affordable housing;
  • Transitional and permanent rental housing;
  • Emergency homeless shelters;
  • Foreclosure mitigation, and more.

The HOMeS Act is projected to generate $700 million per year for affordable housing and programs like COTS, by imposing a $75 recording fee on real estate transactions.

We love that this bill creates a permanent funding source that:

  • Provides funding for programs like COTS;
  • Addresses the critical need to continue to develop affordable housing;
  • Helps growing numbers of homeless people get and keep housing; and
  • Helps those at risk of losing their homes to stay under a roof of their own.

Please help by:

  • Clicking this link to the Housing California website, where with just a few minutes of time you can send support letters to California legislators; and
  • Sharing this with your friends.

Many thanks for your support!

A Place of Miracles

I’m blessed to work in a place of miracles: COTS, an agency that serves the homeless in Petaluma. I have so much to learn, and recently I was taught a lesson about being open to experience beauty in unexpected places.

Nearly every day at work I walked right past a woman who regularly waited in line for our daily lunches. She was almost always the first one there, arriving quite early to stake out her usual spot.

She sat hunched over, knees pulled into her chest, staring straight ahead. Her hair was disheveled and her clothes dirty. Her face was set and her eyes were disengaged from what was happening around her, as though she wanted to avoid interaction at all costs. To be honest, she scared me a little bit, and I’m not proud of that.

But each time I passed her, something tugged at my heart. I was ignoring a human being who deserved to be acknowledged like anyone else. I decided to say hello to her.

When I did, she turned her face toward me and looked into my eyes. It was a beautiful moment. I saw a woman who was open to me, with no trace of the sullen determination that had been there before.

A little habit formed that day. I always made sure to say hello to her, and she always looked at me and returned my greeting. Each time I felt a warm rush of joy.

Once we had a discussion. It had been a warm winter and the trees were blooming prematurely. We shared our love of the blossoms and our concern for their early appearance. Instead of the woman I once feared, I found a lucid and articulate conversationalist.

I haven’t seen her much lately, and I’m sorry I didn’t learn her name. I saw her walking once while I was driving. “There goes my new friend,” I thought.

I’m ashamed of my initial resistance to this lovely human being, but am glad that yet another piece of the wall around my heart has been broken through my experience with her. Beauty lurks in unexpected places. May we be courageous enough to see it.

 

Do you have a spare camcorder?

Dear Friends,

We need a camcorder to help with our November breakfast video. The video will be about the COTS kids, and we want to be able to record them in the Children’s Haven, among other places. Here are some key elements of what we need:
- it must have an external microphone input. This requirement alone will eliminate pretty much all the lowest end camcorders.
- It should record to SD card, for ease in transferring the footage over to computer. (Important note: when you purchase SD cards for camcorders, you will need to purchase Class 6 SD cards or better, 8 or 16 GB in size. Be sure you have at least two of them, so that one can be in the camera while the other is being offloaded to computer.)
Do you have one you’re not using? Please reply to [email protected]. Thanks!

YouTube Chooses COTS for Special Program!

Petaluma based COTS (Committee On The Shelterless) was one of 20 nonprofit organizations nationwide to be accepted to YouTube Next Cause: a program designed to help organizations that are already changing the world better use online video to drive action. At a one-day summit in San Francisco on April 2, selected participants will get access to everything from training in YouTube fundamentals, to promotion and community engagement tips, to one-on-one consulting sessions to grow their YouTube presence.

There were thousands of eligible organizations, and hundreds who made it through the first round, and today YouTube publicly announced 20 of the invitees who were invited to train with some of YouTube’s online video experts on how to build an online audience and turn video views into action.
YouTube has an audience of 800 million people and 4 billion views a day. That is a huge group of people waiting to be engaged and inspired. In the past successful nonprofits have raised tens of thousands of dollars in a single day from YouTube videos. You can check out COTS’ YouTube channel here.

Please help COTS find a fabulous Leadership Giving Manager

Would you please share this with your friends?

Job Announcement

COTS Leadership Giving Manager

COTS is recruiting for a new position. The Leadership Giving Manager candidate should have an impressive track record of accomplishments in leadership giving, donor relations, and events planning and implementation. Key responsibilities include managing all phases of our annual fund raising breakfast (over 600 attended last year) and participating in COTS’ Lifeline Campaign.

The individual should have strong skills in leadership, communication, project management and creating teamwork, and be comfortable with common office software.  The candidate should present a professional image to the community and be able to work with all socioeconomic levels effectively.  A high level of connection to the Petaluma area is desired.  A BA/BS or higher will be a plus for this assignment.

COTS’ most successful staff members are very committed to helping homeless people and are passionate about the organization’s mission.  This will be a key consideration in the hiring process.

This full-time position reports to COTS’ Development Director. Compensation at market rate DOE, with generous benefits.

COTS is an Equal Opportunity Employer. Please send resume and cover letter to Mike Kasper, .

Thank you for your consideration and interest!

 

 

Middle class family helped by homeless woman

Food boxes ready for delivery by volunteers

Here’s a lovely, true story.

A Dad and Mom, three teenage boys, and Grandmother were living together on the Dad’s very nice income.

Dad was laid off from his long time job.  With many mouths to feed (teenage boys!), their savings were quickly spent.

Mom needed some privacy to pray and grieve their desperate situation.  She drove to the public library.  As she sat crying in her car, she was approached by a homeless woman who asked her if she was okay.

After Mom explained the reason for her tears, the homeless woman told her about the Petaluma Kitchen, where she could go and get food for her family.  The family gratefully began to receive our weekly food boxes, which sustained them while they searched for jobs and other resources.

Dad now has a full time job at a lower wage, low enough that the family still qualifies for our food box program. But the family is well fed and staying together!

 

Songwriters’ Stage Benefits COTS, 1/29 6-8:30 pm

365+ Great Things Happened at COTS in 2011

Little by little, day by day, COTS helps people put their lives back together. We thank all who support our work.

  • Steve was given more visiting time with his daughter due to his hard work in groups and therapy at COTS!  Both are very happy.
  • Dale moved into his own senior apartment in Cloverdale thanks to the help of COTS, Rent Right and section 8 voucher.
  • Former COTS Adult shelter member called to let us know he has passed all his SRJC courses with all A’s & B’s.
  • After being homeless 6 years without income, Joe was awarded SSI in our first SOAR disability claim.
  • Watching 13 month old twin brothers Darren and Kyle dance, clap and smile during our morning playgroup.
  • Hearing Louis say about his 22 month old daughter Alice, “She is the best thing that ever happened to me.”
  • The long awaited start of CNA classes came this week for a “can do” Mom! First, secure housing, now targeted education – next, the world!
  • A woman who is moving out of Vida Nueva is giving unneeded furniture and many household items to her neighbors.
  • Mothers in shared housing used the safe forum and language of a life skills training to apologize to each other for recent misunderstandings
  • Mary has secured a job she loves, received her Section 8 housing voucher, and completed her COTS workshop requirements – all in 6 months!
  • Today is another beautiful day in our dear community. Perhaps these stories from the past week will help you to enjoy it even more!
  • Zac got a second job and opened his first savings account ever!
  • After “calling” Elmo on the phone Alice (21 mo) was given an Elmo donated by our community; she’s been spotted pushing him in a stroller.
  • After recovering from brain surgery for a benign tumor, Jill was notified she was selected for Burbank housing this week.
  • Kathy, from The Family Center, quit smoking 4 days ago…congratulations to her!
  • Kathy’s son, Tommy from The Family Center, got an interview at Hanna Boy’s Center…very proud mom!
  • Tony and Ron ages 43 and 44 decide to sign up and take GED Preparation at the SRJC course in hopes of earning their GED
  • Our new Kitchen is taking shape. Coolers, convection ovens, steamer, dishwasher & shelving all in place. Coming soon Meals cooked at COTS!
  • 2 COTS families will be moving into a brand new permanent, supportive housing later this week!
  • Thanks to the Active 20/30 Club & Rohnert Park Bible Church, dozens of our families enjoyed a beautiful Easter packed with fun activities
  • Our new Shared Housing Match Coordinator just helped facilitate her first match. The housing partners move in together on Saturday!
  • Joe, for the first time in his life, feels like he is a productive part of the community & his family.
  • Dave completes over 100 hours of community service in less than 2 months of being at COTS.
  • Tommy, age 16, from The Family Center, has secured an interview with Hannah Boy’s Center…way to go, Tommy!
  • Congratulations to Sally, Mary, Sara and Kathy, all moms from The Family Center, for graduating from Rent Right!
  • While families colored eggs together they were trying to see who could come up with the most ‘egg-cellent’ egg joke; it was ‘eggs-austing’!
  • Mary said, “Thank you COTS! It is amazing how things CAN improve when we are all pulling for each other’s success.”
  • Two single women in Transitional Housing found permanent housing and look forward to moving.
  • An enterprising young student gathered donations of hundreds of books to enhance the libraries of our shared family homes and COTS shelter!
  • At the Kitchen, we quickly go from feast to famine & back.  Today, free range chicken from Petaluma Poultry filled our freezer.
  • Alice (21 mos.) gave baby Dylan (7 mos.)a big, long hug when he was crying during playgroup. What a heart!
  • A single mom enrolled her 4 year old daughter in preschool for the first time this week. Her daughter loves it!
  • Families had a blast at a Springtime Egg Hunt hosted by Casa Grande High’s Honor Society.  They hid over 300 eggs with sweets and prizes!
  • JP starts school to become a medical assistant on May 1 with a full scholarship to cover ALL his expenses and housing.
  • Mary got a job! This is her first job in over 5 years.
  • Our Family Connection volunteer teams are working with Jackie & her 2 teens and Teri and her 2 children; they look forward to outings every week.
  • Our wonderful nurse, Pat, volunteers her time with our families at Mary Isaak Center every Sunday morning…she is such a gift!
  • Jess has gone 5 days without drinking any soda! Her goal is to eat more veggies and cook at home 7 days a week.
  • One of our residents came forward to admit struggling with her recovery.  She is reaching out for help and wants me to hold her accountable
  • Dan beamed as he loaded his last box into his car and left to move into transitional housing with a new job and savings account.
  • Petaluma Kitchen satisfactorily passed inspection by Redwood Empire Food Bank-Kitchen is small very clean with clean well-organized storage.
  • Thanks to the Active 20/30 Club, the kids at the FC have a renovated play yard. The biggest hit? The painted road used for tricycle riding.
  • We moved 4 new residents into Transitional Housing this week and celebrated their successes last night at the monthly potluck dinner meeting!
  • After saving nearly two thousand dollars in just over a year, Dan is ready to accept the offer of permanent housing he received today!
  • Tutor Cindy came to help young mother Sarah study to take the GRE; they had a great first meeting discussing square roots.
  • Felito & Anna Utuie of AfricaOnFire in Mozambique visited the Kitchen Knitters to thank them for their gifts of knitted hats and scarves.
  • Folks with high blood pressure & diabetes will find healthy choices at the Petaluma Kitchen; undressed salad, raw veggies & hard boiled eggs.
  • Our tutor for the Children’s Program brought a special craft project for the kids to do. They loved it!
  • Dale got his section 8 voucher to move into a senior housing in Healdsburg
  • Tom and Kirstein got job offers and start training this week
  • Tim’s hard work lands him a new job that comes with housing.
  • 4 adult singles at COTS complete over 100 hours each of community service in less than 4 months
  • Adam completed an intense 3wk training earning 5 different work certifications, including Forklift Operator, Fire Safety & Work Zone Safety
  • Gail moves back home to Florida be with supportive family to raise her unborn child
  • After a workshop on Non-violent Communication, Rob shared that he was promoted due to his new problem solving skills with co-workers!
  • Linda and her four children are very grateful to have a home they call COTS.
  • Kathie spent 3 hours writing a letter to her son who is in jail. She said it’s the hardest thing she has ever done.
  • Shelly, a mom from The Family Center, opened a new savings account and deposited $1,000!
  • Katrina was our resident speaker for Sara’s Sonoma State Interns who visited The Family Center last week…she was wonderful!
  • COTS alum Ed wrote “School is going well – I now have over a year clean. I am painting a lot and am entering a competition in July. Thank you!”`
  • 7 year-old Gia reads board books to a very engaged Dylan (7 mos); he was bouncing and cooing for joy!
  • Six single adults in Transitional Housing graduated into independent housing this week.
  • We are now partnering with Neighbors Organized Against Hunger (NOAH) to provide supplemental food for families rebuilding their lives
  • Parents in our shared houses enthusiastically tackled outdoor chores (like gardening) with their kids in the beautiful sunshine.
  • Self care meets giving back! Most of the residents in one family shared house, participated in painting Easter ceramics to give as gifts to shelter kids!
  • New to COTS, Sarah (6) had no trouble making friends. During reading hour, she joined others in a make-shift fort to peruse a fun book.
  • On Sunday 1st Pres Church concert with amazing local talent Apologies to Beethoven raised $800 & 2 barrels of food for the Petaluma Kitchen.
  • Appreciation for COTS’ team support with my advocacy for a COTS member to extend his exit date so I would be able to accompany him to a medical appointment that is critical to his pending SSI application.
  • Veteran transitional housing member Jack is thrilled to be moving to our veteran’s permanent housing on Saturday.
  • Patience pays off in housing searches as three of our families just received Section 8 vouchers after 5 years on the waiting list!
  • Laughter is good therapy…our family night staff has a wonderful sense of humor and it permeates throughout our Family Center.
  • Joyce, a mom at The Mary Isaak Center, went to see her mom whom she hadn’t seen in 7 years…it was wonderful!
  • From Alice: “Today I accept the loss that brought me here – changed into a sense of mission to recover wholeness and work ahead to succeed.”
  • Maria received her letter from Section 8 letting her know that she can start looking for permanent housing!
  • Burdened by cleaning toilets, Susanna discovered her own desires for a better life and is signing up for school!
  • Gia (7) showed off her autographed program from the Actor’s Theater for Children’s Alice in Wonderland; the evil Red Queen was her favorite.
  • Alice (20 mos.) got a surprise during Reading Hour; volunteer Sophie brought in a special Elmo book.  Together they read it 5 times in a row!
  • Kitchen patron Jon apologized for his past bad behavior.  “Now that I have my brain back, I see that I was wrong and I’m sorry”
  • COTS organized a Community dinner for Vida Nueva from beginning to end.  All were served well and everything was picked up and put away.
  • Two of our children @ Mary Isaak Center received their new baseball uniforms and were all smiles!
  • 4 year old Anna learned to “jump in” when skipping rope this afternoon.  She squealed with excitement when she told her brothers.
  • Brothers Justin (9) and Jack (7) love when new volunteer Mel comes to play; her soccer skills give the boys a great outlet for their energy.
  • This week at COTS,  Louise celebrates being drug free for 90 days and  a new job!
  • Our new case manager is a natural at creating deep connections with her homeless mothers, laying a foundation for strong outcomes later.
  • Joe and Lee just called to say they are giving 2 weeks notice; they are buying a home of their own.
  • After 9 months on the job, Bill graduated from TH into a home of his own and says he owes his success to COTS believing in  him.
  • “Julie” successfully exercised her newly found skills in setting healthy boundaries in service to her own self care needs!  Bravo!
  • At Family Build Night the children are beginning to work together on projects and are speaking up about their life experiences while they are creating. Our fabulous volunteers run Build Night twice a month!
  • Mr. H graduated from the Transitional Shared Housing program. He now has a job, a college education, and plans to purchase his first home!
  • After a week’s separation, Family Center residents Anita (4) and Ginny (6) laughed with glee upon their reunification.
  • One of our single adults, Wilemena, recently got her old job back. With increased pay!
  • Cold mornings encouraged our cook, Nikki, to prepare breakfasts for the Kitchen.  Hot oatmeal, casseroles, scrambled eggs, and warm bellies!
  • Three moms and three strollers, were seen “strolling” down the street!
  • A resident got a promotion @ The Petaluma Kitchen.
  • A dad deposited over $1000 into their savings from an IRS refund check.
  • All Vida Nueva families are receiving custom disaster preparedness kits, which could provide life-saving assistance in an extreme emergency.
  • A mother and her two kids were given the support they  needed this week around bringing joy into their lives post the years of trauma.
  • Walking, I passed a familiar looking man. He stopped and thanked me(COTS) for helping him and his son 9 years ago. His son is now in college!
  • A single mom faced her fears and attended the doctor’s appointment she’s been putting off for months.  Hooray for self-care!
  • Families got together for a rousing game of “Smarter Than a 5th Grader. Ironically, the only one smarter was the youngest, a 6th grader!
  • COTS receives praises from Latino Service Providers of Sonoma County Org at last weeks meeting for the work it does for families & singles
  • Jay A finds stable job & is able to buy his children birthday presents for the first time in over 2 years. He finally feels like a dad again
  • With the help of Job Smart and the work Right Coordinator, Jean started her dream job at Goodwill this week!
  • Family Center mom went on picnic with new Family Connection team and loved it!
  • A teenage boy decided to come back to the Family Center instead of staying out on the street, mom was very relieved.
  • One of our FC moms graduated from drug dependency court last week; CPS worker told her she wouldn’t and she did!
  • JT, age 19, will receive an AAUW-funded Work Right scholarship to take his upcoming GED exam at SRJC.
  • Married couple Robert S and Dee S turn in over 200 hours of community service between the two of them, in the past 4 months at COTS emergency shelter.
  • “COTS members continued week three of the iWALK challenge today, addingon 12 more miles of heart healthy exercise!
  • One of our FC moms graduated from Solano County Drug Dependancy Court. CPS worker said she couldn’t do it and she did!
  • Jack (9) and Jim (7) came home from their first day of baseball practice with grass-stained uniforms and tales to tell!
  • Officer Mason from Petaluma PD wanted to let COTS staff know that we do amazing work here in the community.
  • While opening her bank account with $35, I saw “Julie” begin to calculate how much she would have at the end of 2 years if she put away $100 a month. A huge smile came over her while seeimg a “glimpse” of what financial freedom might look like…
  • A member who has been struggling with a past trauma shared some tools she has learned through one of the groups offered here at COTS.  With a light in her eyes and newfound confidence, she described a sense she now has of taking control again of her life and working with her pain rather than letting it rule her.  She truly looked like a new person, it was a joy to see.
  • A member downstairs got a job as a nanny, earning $50 an hour.  She is more excited about the opportunity to work with children and be productive than she is the paycheck – though that is welcome as well.
  • Ms. B has taken on the role of “harmony creator” in order to bring peace to her Family Shared Home. She’s doing great work!
  • Working for COTS is amazing!  A staffer credits COTS for the education and inspiration to start a successful new non-profit organization.
  • What does a road trip involve for two of our parents? Finding local NA meetings along the way, careful budgeting, and (hopefully) lots of fun!
  • Our Kitchen apprentice capably answered how many diners, where does food come from and how did she get her job posed by kids from Boys & Girls Club.
  • On Valentines Day teenagers from Harvest Christian School delivered a food drive and helped with Food Boxes.  We applauded their good work.
  • The two youngest members of COTS Emergency Shelter Program were accepted into the Treasure Island Job Corps program in San Francisco.
  • A Transitional Housing resident who is a Kitchen Apprentice passed his Serve Safe exam.
  • Another resident who has completed one year in Food Service at SSU competed for a supervisory position and got it as well as a major increase in salary!
  • Brad, a homeless Veteran, started learning to write this week, a step which took more courage than anything he faced in the service.
  • Mike A Earns his GED
  • Will B completes over 100 hours of Community service in the first month of staying at COTS
  • A handful of COTS participants become Resident Managers-they are role models of connection, hope, intention, & integrity in Shared Housing.
  • The RP Resident Managers had a lively and informative discussion about fostering communication in Shared Housing.
  • Our fathers group at the Shelter is providing support for fathers who want to improve their parenting skills every Thursday.
  • Another mom from The Family Center received her timecard from In Home Health Care which means she will start getting paid right away…she cried!
  • One of our moms in The Family Center received the ok from the court to have her 4 year old son visit her both Saturday and Sunday…she is elated!
  • COTS participants have enjoyed many visits from the Sonoma County Free Bookmobile – this week it added our family homes to their route!
  • Abby (12) loves books.  When the Bookmobile arrived at COTS, she decided to trade her books for new ones, honoring her mom’s request to tame the clutter in their room.
  • Jack (9) was chosen to represent his school at a School Board meeting.  After wowing members, he introduced them to all 9 members of his family who proudly attended.
  • Sue is about to be evicted.  After learning of COTS resources at the Kitchen, she stated “I’m so relieved, I didn’t know I had any options”
  • Food Service Apprentice, Dale D., passed his food safety exam and is now a Certified Professional Food Manager. Congratulations, Dale!
  • In one of COTS groups, residents shared knowledge about resources and found out how much they could help each other!
  • Work Right is busy this week offering a 5-day intensive Job Smart workshop and ten COTS residents are ready to launch a more hopeful job search
  • A Family Center mom got permanent housing and is moving in a week!
  • A Family Center parent who got a promotion has been strutting the halls in his new work clothes feeling very proud!
  • Four single moms now live together in one of our transitional homes, in supportive relationships they began at a domestic violence shelter.
  • A room of your own: $200.Sheets that haven’t been used before: $20.00.A shared, home cooked meal with other moms who understand your story..,priceless.
  • The moms from one of our Family Shared Houses pulled together to make the house spotlessly clean for an upcoming mayoral visit!
  • “Random Acts of Kindness” club members from Rancho Cotate High School attended our Vida Nueva tour and now want to volunteer as tutors!
  • E.C.starts a new internship mentoring at-risk youths and is one semester away from her Certificate in Administration of Justice at the SRJC.
  • At the Family Center House Meeting this week, we organized a Community Dinner for Sunday night. We are having Tacos and Lemon Meringue pie!
  • After two years of homelessness following a divorce and loss of his business, Robert signed a lease on a new apartment and a new life!
  • 4 single moms co-created an excellent system for pooling money to purchase cleaning supplies to maintain a happy, healthy home.
  • When getting her food box Sally said “We never had to ask for help before. My husband was laid off after years of working. The food boxes have saved us. You are a blessing!”
  • Coming from a gentleman I saw today, as we discussed his potential benefits:”I was mad and scared.  My whole world fell apart.  I lost everything. Today I have hope.”
  • Polly and Tannaz, the AmeriCorps members Nurse Annie supervises, gave a presentation at the Good Morning group on hygiene and virus’s on Friday. They were impressed with COTS group and thought they had great comments and questions.
  • Bob, age 25  came to COTS inspired by his mother’s progress in transitional housing  - stopping the cycle of addiction that had been in the family for generations!
  • 8 of our program participants started classes this week. They are taking subjects ranging from math to psychology!
  • Climbing up and down the side of the bunk bed, Alexander exclaimed “I am home…”.  You can’t beat that!
  • A new mental health-referred resident received terrific support from the VN community when he revealed harassment he’s previously suffered.
  • After only  one year employed in Dining Services at SSU, Mary was promoted today to supervisor and her salary will increase from $22,000/yr to $37000/yr.
  • Folks from the second floor are getting jobs like crazy…Jamie has an interview @ K-Mart tomorrow.
  • One of our moms just quit smoking…she has been trying for months!
  • After many years on the street, Sam came to COTS to build a new life.  Helping at the Kitchen to secure a recommendation, he’s determined to find a job.
  • Another one of our residents got more hours & lead position that he’s been trying to get for months, he is a happy employee.
  • A grandmother from the Family Center recently had surgery on her spine; she could have become paralyzed, but instead is doing fine!
  • One of our Family Center residents just got a job with In Home Support Services…she cried, she is so excited!
  • D.D. passed his ServeSafe test yesterday as part of his Kitchen Apprenticeship goals.
  • 1½ year-old Abby joined our reading circle this week.  She lay on her tummy between two older kids and pointed at the pictures as they read.
  • Kala, graduate of COTS, called to say she was promoted to manager at her job and to thank all who helped her develop the skills!
  • R, a COTS resident volunteering at the Petaluma Kitchen exclaimed, “I really love being here.  Everyone is so nice.  I can’t wait for you to move to the Mary Isaak Center!”
  • Our request for furnishings for our new Veterans Housing has been met with a tremendous response from the community. We have received enough donations to turn those apartments into comfy homes for our vets.
  • Former Food Box recipient states “We’ve combined our resources.  We’re doing so well that we no longer need the food boxes.  We only want to use the help when we need it.”
  • Four of our newest families @ COTS opened saving’s accounts with Exchange bank this week.
  • Our families on the second floor of COTS are privileged to have Karyn (therapist) begin working with them as of next week!
  • This week, Jim turned 50 and moved into an apartment of his own celebrating sobriety, a new job and a new life, thanks to COTS.
  • A resident was blessed by the Winter Fairy at the holiday party and her wish came true – her sick child will soon be seen by a specialist!
  • Jake and Ted move into their own place this Sunday after years of being homeless. After 10 months of steady volunteer work, Joe’s volunteer job turns into a paying job.
  • Due to excellent progress, getting a stable job and staying clean and sober, Jess gets taken discharge off probation 1.5 years early
  • Two COTS member Robert and Bill receive Certificates of Appreciation for doing over 250 hours of community service.
  • The kids got a visit from Susan & Katie, a 2.5 year old Bichon Frise.  7 year old Jacob especially liked to cuddle and read with her.
  • Twelve COTS members received certificates for attending the 5-day JobSmart seminar this week.
  • Two families at The Family Center say that T-ball has brought their family together…next is soccer!
  • We finished The Four Agreements workshop last week at The Family Center and I hear folks in the hall say, “don’t forget # 3, don’t take things personally or, “stop making assumptions!”
  • Ben said to his case manager,  “Thank you so very, very much for your support and most of all for believing in me more than I have.”
  • Two of our Vida Nueva moms are launching an ambitious community gardening project to beautify the grounds and grow healthful things to eat!
  • Families across Transitional Family Houses came together for food, conversation, and community building at our first potluck event!
  • The small things can make such a difference!  One mom successfully smogged her “new to her” car, and is feeling such satisfaction.
  • FC kids participated in a COTS Lego-building contest. Each child won an award and got to choose a prize. What a great self-esteem booster!
  • This week, a 3 year veteran of our program successfully transitioned into permanent housing – his very own apartment with his teenage son!
  • One family of four with two teens, is now housed and out of a motel, just in time for finals and prom!
  • Janice’s response to our Food Box program survey – “This program really helps me and my boys! Thank you for all you guys do to help others!”
  • Mary accepted the volunteer position of Floor Manager at The Family Center…we are very lucky to have someone step-up and take this responsibility!
  • Tommy 16, from the Family Center, was accepted into a private school for boys…family is ecstatic!
  • Transition of meal service from Payran to COTS was smooth.  Served 137 lunches.  Residents and kitchen patrons dined peacefully together.
  • 3 families have successfully found permanent housing in the last 30 days. Congratulations!
  • Sue said she used tools learned at COTS to not react in a hard situation at her job, the first one she has been more than 6 months!
  • One of our staff members was able to give support to a participant once it was revealed that they share the same medical condition.
  • Joe completes his Treatment Accountability for a safer Community Program early and is even more motivated to be an all around better person
  • Jesse moved from the shelter  into a clean and sober house this week, paid for by the first job she has had in a year!
  • Jack and Jill from The Family Center, are taking ceraCOTSs thanks to two wonderful COTS volunteers who made it possible for them to take the class…their artwork is beautiful!
  • Larry, from The Family Center, got a full-time job @ Grocery Outlet…he now qualifies for permanent housing!
  • A Casa student recently made and sold tamales, then used the proceeds to buy snacks for the kids at the Family Center. Way cool!
  • Our children’s summer lunch program will feature no less than five different volunteers bringing creative activities to do after each meal
  • The Petaluma Kitchen is becoming greener!  We are contributing less to landfill by washing instead of disposing of plates and flatware.
  • In an atmosphere of safety and support, a healthy 8lb 8 oz baby girl was born. Her mother’s good instincts were present all along the way.
  • Our first Saturday at the new Petaluma Kitchen went smoothly – community volunteers and clients packed and delivered over 200 food boxes!
  • Mathew received his G.E.D.! He is a transitional housing member who said, “I don’t have to lie about my education anymore”.
  • Will, a single adult in transitional housing, got his Class A passenger endorsement and got hired by MV Transport to bus veterans to services in CA and Oregon.
  • After completing an English class at the SRJC, Louis proudly shared some of his work with staff.  We all agree he did an amazing job!
  • One of our most frequent visitors to our reading program, Gia earned a reading medal for her successes in 1st grade.
  • Jan sent her final payment in to a creditor, becoming debt free after years of struggling financially!
  • Two of our families were overwhelmed with gratitude after learning we could help them avoid eviction with our Homeless Prevention resources
  • COTS clients demonstrated how kind and patient they are by welcoming their new case manager on her first busy day.
  • Kate gets her first job after 9 years of not working.
  • JP youngest adult member earns his GED and has stared his vocational training to become a Medical Assistant
  • Rich, Debbie, Robert and Keith each receive awards for over 250 hours of community service
  • Stan finishes his AA degree this week at Santa Rosa Junior College in Alcohol & Drug Counseling
  • After many months…Sam was approved for Social Security.Now sustainable housing and access to better healthcare “is at the top of my list.”
  • Bill ran into a former resident who is working 7 days a week and has a place of his own.
  • Residents of COTS and Staff Contributed $445 dollars for Japan Earthquake Relief.
  • One of our Family Center moms recently had a job interview and another has one scheduled. Both prospects look very promising. Yeah moms!
  • Gia (7) and Annie(5) received scholarships to attend ballet and art classes through the Petaluma Baptist Church this week.
  • This week our Vida Nueva children learned from volunteers how to create their own mandalas, and how to make origami boats and bunny rabbits
  • These literacy advocates will help the Family Center residents study to take their GED test which will enable them to help their children with homework.
  • The outcome of our literacy training last Sat, was four dedicated volunteers who have generously offered to work with four Family Center residents.
  • On June 21, we will celebrate the opening of the Petaluma Kitchen at the Mary Isaak Center.  At 4pm, our party starts with honoring our many volunteers.
  • Acknowledging his past, Charles looks to the future with optimism, “People here at COTS tend to lift you up….and not put you down.”
  • Our summer lunch and activities program started at Vida Nueva with laughing children going on a nature walk with full bellies!
  • Vida Nueva children ate vegetables happily  after cooking them into muffins  with a Family Connection volunteer.
  • Kids (and some parents too!) staying at the Mary Isaak Center enjoyed the first hot days of summer by running through the sprinkler.
  • Cameron, from The Family Center, has been one of speakers for COTS these past few weeks…he is grateful to be one of the chosen ones!
  • Terri and her 2 children from The Family Center secured housing in Petaluma…she moves in next week!
  • Zander (2 yrs) gave many big hugs to one of his COTS teachers this week. He seems to know that his family is moving on to permanent housing!
  • Hearing that a fellow resident was in a car accident, Sue gives up her bottom bunk even though she suffers from sciatic nerve pain.
  • Carpooling is good for the environment and job search – 4 clients went to an interview together for support, and they all got work!
  • It’s Alex’s first week at COTS; a toddler who already enjoys playing musical instruments, working on puzzles and enjoying our playgroup.
  • Single adults in TH are looking forward to a new wellness drop-in service to be offered weekly at COTS.
  • Three single adults from Transitional Housing moved into independent housing this week! Bill, a resident in transitional housing, passed his GED and started a personal fitness certificate program at the SRJC this week.
  • Setting his pride aside, John confides he is no longer able to work, “I am ready to apply for SSI, I am thankful you are hear to help.”
  • Keith thanks COTS for the new shoes….he has Diabetes. “The sores on my feet feel so much better.”
  • Mike shared good news everyday this week: a job interview, enrolling in class, a 2nd interview, and getting called for a housing voucher!
  • Amber and Kelley’s Relapse Prevention workshop is a huge success…congrats to you both!
  • Mary and Jerry from The Family Center have an interview for permanent housing next Thursday…they are excited!
  • Two of our young girls (ages 5 and 7)who had a fight managed to work out their differences with little intervention. What great initiative!
  • Ginny (7), Ana (5) and a COTS Teacher rocked out this week, using rackets as air guitars and the outdoor hose as a COTSophone!
  • Boy Scout collects needed items for COTS to earn his Eagle Award.
  • Six Vida Nueva children went to the county fair to see their entries!
  • Arlene is settled enough now that she can finally attend to her pressing physical health needs, which includes a committed to quit smoking!
  • Beth, having fled DV 6 months ago, is 1 week away from completing her CNA certification, proving to herself that she is unstoppable.
  • Sat 6/18 Adobe Christian Church and Hillside Church of the Nazarene invited COTS to a BBQ.  About 50 members enjoyed an afternoon in the country.
  • Lucky does over 700 hours of community service during her 6 months at COTS
  • Robert, Ray and Derek get new jobs
  • Kneesha ,  graduate, called –  she is accepted in Culinary Institute of America in NY,  a  lifelong dream for this former foster care child.
  • Sara gets positive feedback from her tutor Cynthia; her hard work is paying off and she is getting closer to her goal of passing the GED.
  • 11 month old Nelly chases 10 month old Daniel down the hallway.  It was a crawling race full of giggles and smiles.
  • 5 year old Annie offers to vacuum after our morning playgroup; she has fun zipping around the room and the rug has never looked so good!
  • Our dear Pauly, Resident Night Staff of the Family Center, took our families to see the Sesame Street show in Oakland last Saturday. The show was a tremendous success and everyone had a fabulous time…more outings to come!
  • COTS member leaves with a bright smile into independent housing this week!
  • It was sure fun watching May (8), Ginny (7) and Ana (5) make paper cell phones with their COTS Teacher Emily. Yeah for socio-dramatic play!
  • The sound of laughter is ringing through the halls at Vida Nueva where 13 kids are actively shouting BINGO in our Summer Lunch Program!
  • Two single parent families at the McGregor house are sharing a Family Connection team.
  • Thanks to generous community collaboration, several of our youth were signed up to participate in a shopping spree designed just for them!
  • Families were treated to Elmo in Oakland this weekend.
  • Fred is on the mend after battling a severe infection which has put him in the hospital three times since he arrive in the Respite Unit.  He has retained his job as a painter during this ordeal.
  • Roy has a job in Sonoma and is moving in with his sister.
  • Sam reflects, “I’m ready for change…..I’ve always been a huge success at failure.”
  • Katherine is staying positive while battling ovarian cancer.  She was overjoyed at the food received in her first Box delivered on Saturday.
  • Our own Kelly Bidegain has reconnected with the people that helped him rehab after his accident and is mentoring newly disabled patients as they begin the rigors of rehabilitation. Very inspiring community service!
  • Kids enjoyed singing and dancing during water play this week; Billy (age 6) could do both while gracefully jumping over a sprinkler!
  • Sarah & Nancy made a thank you card for their tutor Carol who will be out of town next month; she’s going to pack it in her suitcase.
  • “Life keeps getting better and better” shared an Integrity House resident. I’ve saved $5000 and reconnected with my family after 17 years.”
  • Jeri, from The Family Center, finally heard today that she got the job with our Petaluma Kitchen…she is very excited and proud!
  • Our COTS families went to the beach last weekend and also The Farmer’s Market this week…our Night Manager is so kind to take them!
  • It sure was wonderful to hear two kids this week say, “Are you doing the Children’s Program tomorrow? I like coming here!”
  • A resident who has frequently gone above and beyond the call of duty moved into her new room at COTS transitional housing. Congrats Ms. B!
  • Ron chooses to follow COTS’ Transitional Housing path, leaving COTS, after receiving SSI.  “I’ve never had so many people care about me.”
  • This week, one of our mom’s had much a needed surgery to improve her health and is recuperating well, supported by her teenage daughter.
  • In fiscal year 10-11, our amazing Food Box volunteers made & delivered boxes with 798,635 lbs of food to folks in Southern Sonoma County!
  • After a fire drill last week one of the children remained “startled” from the loud alarm for a couple of days. He would not let go of mom’s leg. Using our trauma healing tools we were able to help him calm down and get back to normal again.
  • Bob in our Permanent Shared Housing talks to daughter for first time in 19 years. Petaluma Kitchen apprentice passes Serve Safe test.
  • Children at Vida Nueva laughed as they learned a new game – jump roping to rhymes as part of COTS summer activities program!
  • Vicky gets a job after 12 years of being a stay-at-home mom.
  • Melanie, a domestic violence survivor, bravely changed old patterns and named her  feelings to a housemate instead of running away.
  • Sixteen year old Tommy, who has been away at school, is coming to visit his family at COTS for the weekend…it’s his first weekend back!
  • Jeri and her daughters from The Family Center, secured housing in Petaluma…they move in September!
  • Girl Scouts are all set to go shopping for Back To School Supplies for our children.Petaluma…congrats to them!
  • Our apprentice ably handled questions from the Health Dept for our annual inspection.   No violations & compliments for a clean work area.
  • Mr. B has dipped his toes back into the waters of academia after many years – he was ecstatic to learn that his hard work earned him an A!
  • In playgroup, two of our younger kids braved the high seas (foam pillow=rocky boat; their teacher swirling a blue blanket around=waves).
  • “Karly” received a Certificate of Excellence for her superb skills and perfect attendance in our six-week Compassionate Communication workshop!
  • “Pete” is feeling more positive and hopeful after coming up with three self-affirmations last week and repeating them to himself every evening before he falls asleep.
  • While at COTS, 21 year old Lupe decides to go back to school for her GED. Her parents were so proud of her maturity, she move back home.
  • After 7 years of being absent from his son’s life and his 3rd anniversary of sobriety, George reunites with his son on his 12th birthday.
  • Jared is very excited to quit smoking with the help of his new nicotine patch.
  • COTS illustrious Executive Director, facilitates a support group for our Family Center residents who rave about his good advice and support.
  • Two of our lovely, lady residents from The Family Center, had job interviews…It looks promising for both!
  • Jamie (14), Ali (12 ) and Jane (10) initiated & executed their own art project; A large, colorful painting with their foot and hand prints!
  • Kids worked together to plan & star in 2 plays this week; everyone voiced their opinion and took a turn in the spot light.  Great teamwork!
  • Children from the United Church of Christ donated books to our playroom’s library much to our kids’ delight; yay to promoting literacy!
  • Happy COTS children began to get ready for school today with the gift of 49 back packs from a wonderful donor.
  • Ana (5) and Jason (8) were very respectful when playing together. Both exhibited clear communication, patience and turn-taking.
  • During water play, Ana (5) put suds on her face. Worried that soap would get into her eyes, Jen (10) very carefully wiped the suds away.
  • On Friday, we’ll receive 6,678 lbs of corn, broccoli, celery, oranges, nectarines, pears, w-melon and cantaloupes for our Food Boxes!
  • Personal thoughts of appreciation are written by a member in a card.  Staff and member are both thankful for each other!
  • Sam drew inspiration from the birth of his first baby this week to reaffirm his decision to turn his life around with the help of COTS.
  • Bank of Marin confirmed their sponsorship of the Make Miracles Happen Fundraising Breakfast and also are giving an additional gift in support of COTS Programs!  They are excited to have one of their team members be a Table Captain again this year!
  • The 20-30 Club’s back-to-school Kids ‘shopping’ Spree is giving our kids new looks for school when it starts next week.  Thank you so much!
  • Families staying at COTS enjoyed an afternoon at the theater munching on yummy popcorn and giggling at the Smurfs.  What a treat!
  • It is GREAT news with a 3 year resident of COTS graduates into her own apartment with her two kids, three months ahead of schedule!
  • Keri is one of newest COTS interns…she’s our representative from The Family Center.
  • Sally, from The Family Center, is having a great month; she got her car running, CDL, registration and insurance…oh, she also got a job!
  • Using enchilada sauce, tortillas and jack cheese donated from Amy’s Kitchen, we have a new recipe for chicken and cheese enchiladas.  Yummy!
  • Brad is so excited about starting at SRJC that he made a plan ,a back-up plan, and a back-up-back-up plan to make sure he can pay for classes!
  • It’s nice to see family residents bonding; Larry playing b-ball with Darren’s son, Darren taking a stroll with Larry and his daughter Ali.
  • COTS Family Literacy Program took off with a bang this week as the first volunteer/parent literacy meeting took place. Both are excited!
  • Families helping families: Jackie rents DVD’s from the library for another family just because she cares.
  • Thanks to Our Kids Sake COTS kids were all smiles with a donation of over 100 pieces of clothing, diapers, educational tools and more!
  • Bill, Lisa, Nathan and Chris all got jobs this week after completing the Job Smart program.
  • While sitting at the snack table during the Children’s Program, Jay (8) said, “We look like a family”.
  • Micshele at Vida Nueva has her daughter’s operation scheduled in Boston. COTS resources will support her during this long awaited process.
  • Dean, graduating from Transitional Housing, was accepted into an apartment with his two daughters after being back at work for two months!
  • Working two jobs to earn and save money, Jack signs his lease today to enter transitional housing.
  • Connor hears the big news from his hospital bed that he has been SSI approved for his medical condition.
  • A recent Job Smart grad was prepared and confident at a job interview this week and got the job!
  • Ericka came up with a brilliant way to contribute to her community – she offers tutoring to her fellow COTS-er’s working towards their GED!
  • Kristy from the FC started her GED prep with her Literacy Advocate this week. She is very motivated and excited to move forward with this!
  • Henry moved to COTS housing today and reports that the tenants in his new house have been so friendly in making him feel welcome.
  • The AAUW scholarship fund is assisting Bob with bus passes so he can commute to the SRJC and he is realizing a life-long dream to attend college.
  • Jack starts his first real massage therapy job tomorrow and describes how he conquered his fear of job search with COTS mentor support.
  • Four Job Smart grads got jobs this week after four weeks of dedicated job search!
  • Allen (13) recalled his toddler days while playing with Annie (2) and Danny(18mo); they were having so much fun rolling on the floor laughing!
  • Ginny (7) has been diligently reading her assigned school book every night during Reading Hour. Her reading skills have improved so much!
  • Darren (1 ½ yrs) saw others playing Frisbee during the Children’s Program and wanted to give it a try. So he did!
  • One of our families who moved to Vida Nueva last month is loving their new home!
  • Sandy, a mom from The Family Center, just started school @ The JC in Petaluma. she is taking 19 units with a major in Film Media!
  • Jim “I want to thank you all  - amazing.  This was a very humbling experience for me and I realize that things aren’t that bad considering.”
  • 13 separate home-share participants have completed home-shares through COTS Home-Sharing Program within the past ten days!
  • A single Mom who has only been with us since 12/10, just landed her first full time position in her new career! She starts in 2 weeks!
  • A home-sharing success! Rod is excited to give back by providing support for a person in need in exchange for affordable rent.
  • SSI pending, Vaughn is able to move into Singles Transitional Housing just in time for his much needed and previously delayed surgery.
  • Our recovery group had a deep, insightful and lively discussion about monitoring the effects of caffeine, sugar and nicotine as well as employing careful med-management routines in order to maintain health and well-being!
  • Going back to school at fifty, Bob is doing fantastic! He aced his first test and turned in his first paper a MONTH early!
  • 4 emergency shelter members helped a COTS staff member move in Petaluma. They completed the move in record time, and earned some cash too!
  • We are fortunate to have such wonderful therapy for our families @ COTS…thank you Karyn & Amber!
  • Newcomer Dee (8) asked Gia (7), “Will you be my friend?” Gia said, “Of course! I’m friends with all the kids here!”
  • Lucy and Adam, a couple at COTS, both struggle with mental health diagnoses, but are finding support, understanding and compassion in COTS community.
  • Janet, a young woman in the family center, is loving her science classes! She looks forward to “swimming with sea turtles” when she becomes a “scientist!”
  • Trust is strengthened among shared transitional housing housemates as personal stories are shared with a new participant.  Ray reflects, “I never realized her burden was so heavy”.
  • Yesterday 6 COTS residents jumped in to prepare food boxes that served 38 low income families.  Thanks for being of service to our community!
  • One of our groups talked about boredom as a relapse trigger. We found all are too busy with school, work, hobbies, etc. to be bored!
  • While completing a routine assessment of her twin toddlers Mary beamed with pride as she spoke of her boys’ wonderful attributes.
  • After 15 mins of just observing, Allen 13 and Tad 12 sloughed off their tough guy exterior and joined an uproarious game of Hullabaloo.
  • When Jackie and her young son arrived from a domestic violence situation, our families surrounded her with love and support. Jackie could not stop crying from gratitude.
  • After a decade of wanting to take the test, Jason is ready, willing, and able to take his GED this week!
  • Kids created a miniature golf course this week. They each added an obstacle, took turns playing and were great at problem-solving.
  • Joe, community living beyond “COTS’ umbrella,” has sought advice from COTS’ Disability Benefits Advocate. “Thank you, I didn’t know where else to turn to.”
  • COTS member Angel did not speak, only shed tears of happiness after receiving a certificate for reaching 500 hours of community service.
  • A friend lost his job and now eats at the Petaluma Kitchen so that he can use his money to pay rent; he is thankful for the free meals.
  • 3 young adults Luke, Diane and Jan have been accepted to Job Corps and are pending entry dates to start their vocational training programs.
  • Josh, Betty, Alice, Sean, Chuck & Rob from COTS all move into permanent housing this past week.
  • Joe and Tina volunteer over 400 hours each during their stay at the Mary Isaak Center, to become more employable
  • Robert and Dan, a COTS home-share match since May 2011 just committed to an additional 6-month home-share! It’s working well because of great communication!
  • THANK YOU, Steve & Hannah, for providing a new COTS Integrity House rental, which will house 4 COTS graduates, beginning Oct 1st!!
  • Ali (8 mos), Cate (3) and Brenda (4), all new residents of the Family Center, joined our morning playgroup this week. It was a blast!
  • Twins Derrick and Kirk (18 mos) explored with watercolor paint this week. Derrick really enjoyed painting his face and scalp!
  • A new mother is learning the “felt sense” and long term value of cultivating a “village” in order to support herself & her 4 month old!
  • Another healthy, beautiful baby girl was born to a mom, no longer worried about her safety, &  who is making plans for an amazing future!
  • THRILLED! A long-time resident of VN & her husband, showed off their fall bounty of organic fruits/veggies, including heirloom tomatoes!
  • Due to working on goals regarding budgeting, Lenny was happy to find out that his credit score hit 700! Yay! Transitional Housing member!
  • Today is Karen’s last day as our apprentice.  She leaves us with her ServSafe Certification, a new self-confidence, and many new friends.
  • Janessa has lost an amazing 17 pounds since starting her work in the Petaluma Kitchen. No Gym membership needed here!
  • One of the most difficult things is asking for help. I am very proud of COTS residents that stood up and asked for help this week.
  • He escaped from Castro’s Cuba.  Now Jorge has a job doing maintenance on buses.
  • Leslie has great appreciation for our Program.  With little money coming in, many times the food box has kept her family from going hungry.
  • Mandy has been approved for stomach surgery to assist her in losing weight. She is very excited!
  • Three program participants are pooling their economics and employment resources to create a permanent home they can move into next month!
  • A new mom comes face to face with the awesome & beautiful responsibility of parenthood, and has “kicked her abusing boyfriend” to the curb!
  • Jeff-9 came into our after school program smiling from ear to ear; he did his time tables in under a minute and earned a school dance.
  • A single mom is learning how valuable a web of support can be, as she faced her daughter’s illness, and her own upcoming surgery.
  • Toddlers danced & clapped as staff member Emily sang the alphabet in her best falsetto; she has never felt more like a rock star.
  • After a lot of hard work and dedication, Ava received all A’s on her report card!
  • All-staff meeting began with a quote from Mother Theresa that made one staff member’s week.
  • Kerry’s daughter, Barbie, who goes to high school in Santa Rosa, had fantastic attendance this past semester!
  • The children in COTS Haven helped to paint fall leaves to decorate their home.
  • Wells Fargo Volunteers joined us to make food boxes & serve lunch!  Last year our volunteer run Box Program offered over 798,000 lbs of food.
  • Mr. K, who has faced and conquered innumerable challenges of late, was rewarded for his hard work with permanent housing this morning.
  • COTS has allowed me time to get well….and  the support of staff has helped me so much in getting my health and business affairs in order.
  • Mark, a dad from The Family Center, got a job this week at The Petaluma Poultry…fulltime plus overtime to boot!
  • After attending a Miracles Tour, the kitchen volunteers left amazed by COTS programs.
  • While playing “night-night” in the play yard, Amy (2), Cathy (3) and their teacher looked up to see a beautiful rainbow in the sky.
  • Jan (10) and her teacher were naming members of their FC “family” as a game. On the list? Parents, kids, staff, and Lenny, Karyn’s dog!
  • Walking to work today I found new appreciation for our COTS members who persevere, meeting their goals without the luxury of transportation.
  • Singles Transitional Housing member continues to excel in college!
  • George called from Arkansas, his birthplace, to thank COTS, “I love my job, bought a home and just got married!”
  • Rough and tumble twin toddlers took a pause during their active play to share a quick hug before they ran off in separate directions.
  • Volunteers from the community and COTS residents working together to prepare food boxes for those in need in Petaluma is inspirational.
  • Two year old Alice was playing peek-a-boo with one of her teachers during lunch. “I hide!” she said.
  • Dee and John found the 400 hours of community service they provided were beneficial in the job gap history for job search.
  • After 15 years of separation from his family, Alvaro has taken the steps to become a US Citizen and reuniting with his family.
  • Two years ago, 3 of Frank’s fingers were cut off in a work related accident. This month he was approved for disability benefits.
  • Thank you to all the program participant ambassadors (hi Sue!) who go into the community and represent COTS philosophy beautifully.
  • After numerous struggles in life, Vicky knew she wanted to be a paramedic. On Monday she started Job Corps to become a medical assistant.
  • Helped facilitate a match for a woman needing help to pay her mortgage.  Both parties grateful for COTS’ help in creating a safe homeshare.
  • Graduate Jason emailed us to say, “I’m really enjoying life! I like where I live and where I work. Wishing you my best!”
  • Petaluma Bounty gleaners harvested about 20 buckets of organic apples from local growers for our Food Box Program.  Go Bounty Hunters!
  • Alma (2), Gia (7) and their teacher got to inspect a fire truck up close and personal when it was parked in COTS parking lot this week.
  • COTS member has a heartfelt letter from son saying how proud he is of his dad for taking care of his life.
  • No longer physically able Sam felt ashamed, unable to support himself at 60 yrs old…an extra bounce in his step today, he’s SSDI approved!
  • Facilitating a healing drum circle has brought a great deal of joy and peace into the life of Sally, one of our wonderful residents.
  • One of our support groups was HUGE this week — 21 people! The extensive wisdom and insight of the group left the facilitators speechless!
  • Faith-based organizations on the move for COTS!  St. James did a recent gift drive and raised $10,000 for COTS!
  • Wells Fargo gives employees work-time to volunteer. Several  chose COTS, starting at 1x/ month, but some have already increased their hours.
  • COTS children had a blast trick or treating at “Cavity Cove” on D Street in their beautiful and scary costumes.
  • Last Saturday every Food Box Program route was delivered! Over 260 homes received pears, potatoes, cabbage, carrots, kiwi and celery, eggs and staples!
  • A quote from Mr. B: “I came here lonely and destitute-a mess. Now my life is completely changed because of COTS. I’m finally happy again!”
  • COTS medical team has given 60 flu vaccines to members and staff and we will continue to offer them this fall.
  • “This is the best day!” Sean exclaims….thank you for all of your help. “Tomorrow already seems brighter.”
  • Visiting his mom this week, Alan (11) found a new admirer in Alice (2). She showed her affection though lots of hugging and by getting cozy!
  • Mariah received her first pair of supportive tennis shoes. Now she can walk easier with less pain.
  • Children were excited when they found out that our beloved two-seater tricycle was fixed this week. “Taxi” rides are now all the rage!
  • We have a new little baby boy in The Family Center…little Jimmy is a delightful new addition!.
  • This year, four of our families shared their portraits in COTS yearly calendar…they are so proud!
  • A couple from The Family Center is participating in Somatic Experience and loving it!
  • Congrats to Marc, our newest Family Center Intern…he is very happy with his new job!
  • Grace (7) just found out that she ranked above average in reading; her grandma attributed this to our nightly reading hour.
  • Gia (7), Mary (8) and Darcy (8) all agreed that working out their issues and ensuring everyone felt included was the highlight of their day.
  • Gestures of kindness witnessed every day at COTS. Today a perfect stranger opened the door for me,with sincere greetings added “Have a great day!”
  • It is so inspiring to see that James has 10 A+ papers in his psych class.
  • Pete just secured employment that is going to provide him with a salary as well as a home!
  • One of our volunteer tutors reported that Alice, age 13, is really sharpening up her math skills.  Nice work!
  • Thank you Petaluma for your amazing response to our request for turkeys!  Each family on our Program will receive a turkey for Thanksgiving!
  • Jake is following his heart and reconnecting with family, as he leaves COTS with a new job and many housing opportunities!
  • Two Vida Nueva residents have made appointments to take care of long standing health problems.
  • Staff supports each other during a very event-filled week.
  • It was sure nice to see 8 year old Dannie feeding her baby sister Amy, 10 mos., in the Family Center kitchen. What a loving, helpful act!
  • Clients inspired by supportive & healthy relationships (1 of our 4 Pillars of Success) “watered/grown” over time,& the difference that makes!
  • COTS breakfast was truly inspirational…I look forward to it every year!
  • Jim shares photos of he and his grown daughter at his Integrity House residence, happily reunited after 17 years.
  • Bill got a new trucking job that doubles his salary and asked for advice to give notice he has a new career opportunity.
  • Sue called to share that she was granted an expungement of her old record and she can now re-license to work as a Certified Nurse’s Aide!
  • Mike is embarking on a new chapter of his life that includes starting his degree, stable housing, and reconnecting with his spiritual roots.
  • A member came to group to say goodbye! He moves on to successful employment and thanks COTS/community for support and “tools” he leaves here with!
  • COTS member is feeling inspired and hopeful from the amazing results he is getting from using EFT/Tapping.
  • COTS resident ready to submit disability claim. Receiving gift of time allows healing to begin from unimaginable trauma as well as other conditions.
  • Years ago Randy said “I’ll be back when I’m a famous chef” He stopped in today with proof, after a tour of state fairs cooking exotic foods.
  • As of November 29th, all of our program participants in the Adopt a Family Christmas program have been successfully ‘adopted’ out.
  • Children and staff laughed as volunteer Sydney read a funny book about a cat; then we all had a ball creating are own paper plate cats.
  • It was nice watching an impromptu football game being played in the Children’s Program. GO COTS Kids!
  • The Family Center has beautiful, newly waxed floors…all pretty and shiny!
  • One of our moms at The Family Center got a “new” used car…her teens are elated!
  • Ruth has changed nearly everything about her life after 6 months at the MIC – she’s drug/alcohol free, happy, healthy & reconnected to her family.
  • Eddie, a troubled and developmental delayed older teen joined Warren’s Relapse Prevention class at Vida Nueva.
  • Singles Transitional Graduate has been able to heal and reunite with family ,looking forward to the birth of his grandchild.
  • Jenny (11) has had such success with her tutor Stacey she asked to set up a second weekly appointment: I see high marks in her future!
  • Our recovery group had 25 people this week! Positivity, inquisitiveness, group wisdom and support abounds!
  • The Family Center party was wonderful; Mr Pope orchestrating Holiday Carols; Santa came with presents and Debbie organized yummy finger food!!
  • Children made “menus” this week to use while playing “restaurant”, their new favorite game. Yeah early literacy!
  • A family who recently moved out got a collage of personal photos, taken during their stay at COTS. Mom was teary-eyed, and thankful!
  • Art abounds at COTS! Residents have contributed drawings, happy notes, and stickers to a holiday mural on the 2nd floor.
  • Ron appreciates being given an opportunity to participate in COTS’ 30 Day Challenge Program. “I can now recover my life one step at a time.”
  • Following years of hard street living, Aureliano, entered shelter unable to conceive a life beyond his next meal. Warm, fed and safe, he is now imagining a home of his own.
  • Rohnert Park Rotary adopted 3 whole households in our shared housing program for the holiday Adopt a Family program and are buying every single person gifts.

 

A day in the life at our Holiday Donation site!

 

*We had 32 children from Grant School walk over to our Donation Site, each carrying a hand made bag full of thoughtful items for our Family Connection program.

*We also received 28 black garbage bags full of new items for all of our programs from Petaluma St.James Church.

*Joy Hinke from Broad Com in Petaluma came in and told me that their company sold raffle tickets for prizes at their company party and intended on donating the $800.00 to COTS in the form of in kind items and cash. They also hosted a giving tree, and are donating those items as well.

*Santa Rosa Kaiser nurses and doctors dropped of a huge box that contained special gifts picked out for one of our Adopt a Family participants.

*A beautiful black bike with pink and white tires was dropped off for one of our teenage girls in our program. It was donated by Johanna Szostak and co-workers from Redwood Credit Union in Petaluma who pooled  their money together to buy it for her.

*Instead of buying each other gifts, IONS (Institute of Noetic Sciences) generously gave attention to our emergency shelter folks by buying them things on their most wanted list. Awesome!

Our COTS Donation Site is located in the Golden Eagle Shopping Center  #32 and will be open:

Saturday Dec 17 12-4

Tuesday Dec 20th 4-6

Thursday Dec 22nd 5-7  (last day we are open)

Thank you everyone,
Andrea DeRosa
(Holiday Coordinator)

COTS Annual Report

Here is COTS annual report 2011. Hope you find it helpful!